Much as you'll probably want to sort this out here and now, you'd be better off giving it a little time IMHO.

Put yourself in your wife's shoes. There probably is an innocent explanation, or this attention is unsolicited and unwanted. Think how you'd feel if confronted in such a way, suggesting that you're not trusted.

Easy to say when you're not in the situation, I know, but I've seen a mate's perfectly good marriage go down the toilet through exactly the same chain of events when neither party was out of place. Just a couple of silly text messages, a load of misunderstandings followed by doubt, suspicion, anger and mistrust.

I say cool it for a day or two if you can, see if anything else raises your suspicions in the meanwhile and if and when you do broach the subject with your wife, tread very carefully and be as tactful as you can.

Kevin

LSG, she is cheating mate, I have seen it all before.

Just got to think how to best deal with it to avoid destroying not only each other, but everyone else around you.

Its impossible to move forward with this playing on your mind so try and think of the best way of tackling it.

I hope I am totally wrong and its all innocent, but it sounds like she is covering up to me.

Well about 20 mins and all will be revealed her sister is leaving in a minute or 10.
O and another thing earlier on I know one text was from him and she said she had a text from sis-in law which she did but it went off twice this was for the original text, my son said who's that at this point this is when he had first looked she said o it's Lynne when she had one from him and another so son said it went off twice she said o yeah thats because I didn't read it, it reminds me that w*nker

webby23 wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:33:

Richie London wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:38:

If her sister would leave 

Richie London wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:41:

I plucked up all this courage and it's gradually going down and down and down.

webby23 wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:45:

Yeah she's going as we speak.

Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,IF something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking.