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Re: Help with something
Reply #60 - 04. Jun 2009 at 23:08

Albs wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:59:

Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,if something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking. Wink

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Re: Help with something
Reply #61 - 04. Jun 2009 at 23:08

You might not like this point of view ... sorry Sad

But IMHO be very careful to keep an open mind ..... reading your views it seems to me you've already made up your mind....

If you go in guns blazing with accusations then she gets upset and refuses to answer ... you'll assume she's guilty as hell ..... she'll get defensive .. so you'll think she's hiding something ....

All will lead to a downwards spiral from which you'll have major problems recovering.

This is a problem that needs communication .. which is not just the ability to speak .. but the ability to listen as well ... on both sides.

I wish you luck .. I think you are both going to need it, regardless of what is .. or is not ... going on...... there is far too much mistrust in this relationship IMHO.

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Re: Help with something
Reply #62 - 05. Jun 2009 at 00:38

Albs wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 22:59:

Personally I wouldnt take notice of all the advice to give the bloke a kicking,IF something is going on its not just his fault ,it takes 2 to tango,and although it hurts the male pride more than just about anything else,if this is the 3rd time its happened then she cant possibly be worth getting locked up for,which is probably what will happen if you give him a kicking. Wink

Yep, as they say "there's more than one way to skin a cat".
Hopefully all is well, but if not, you don't need to get yourself in trouble with the law.

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Martin Imber Over Active Poster Offline LPG Omega V6 - Keyfobs Rebuilt Posts: 20110 Worcester Gender: Drives: 2001 Omega 2.6CD LPG & 3.0 cams	Re: Help with something Reply #63 - 05. Jun 2009 at 08:29 If he is pestering or having an affair - he is in the wrong. Dark Alley, Baseball bat and covered face time
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Re: Help with something
Reply #64 - 05. Jun 2009 at 12:50

Del Boy wrote on 04. Jun 2009 at 19:12:

Guys and girls can I ask, if your mrs. got a text message reading (can't remember all of it) i'm away until friday night but will be back then so we can catch up then Sweet Lips x x

Now this isn't me being insecure but am I being paranoid or does this sound like someone who may be cheating this has been going round and round my head for the past 5 hours and i'm in total mood mode at the minute. My son and mrs. can tell summin' is wrong and this is it. Now I wouldn't usually ask on a public forum but I got no-one else to ask TBH.

Dont muck around mate, if it is ripping you up you MUST let her know and get it cleared up. These things tend to fester if you let it go without knowing. Take it from someone who knows.
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Re: Help with something
Reply #65 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:06

This man is known locally by my contacts LSG, but is just known as a "very quiet" individual who has been around. Not known as a problem though. Wink

As a woman though I try to avoid quiet types, they can be trouble. So can quiet woman comes to think about it! Roll Eyes

A careful approach LSG is still my advice. There are always two sides to any story. Wink

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Re: Help with something
Reply #66 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:24

Lizzie Zoom wrote on 05. Jun 2009 at 16:06:

This man is known locally by my contacts LSG, but is just known as a "very quiet" individual who has been around. Not known as a problem though. Wink

As a woman though I try to avoid quiet types, they can be trouble. So can quiet woman comes to think about it! Roll Eyes

A careful approach LSG is still my advice. There are always two sides to any story. Wink

That's right Ms Zoom, dialogue is the only answer - any other decision made in the heat of the moment, without due consideration, usually results in an unpleasant situation becoming worse - just when sound judgement is required.

I have always found when encountering problems that it's easier to establish the nature of the problem, by asking if there really is one, and then taking appropriate steps to rectify it in a logical and sensible way.

Talk is the way forward - the only way Thumbs Up!

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nick v6 Omega Baron Offline Posts: 4776 walsall / west midlands Gender: Drives: chrysler grand voyager 3.3v6	Re: Help with something Reply #67 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:27 has anyone herd off lsg today is he ok
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ScottieMV6 Omega Knight Offline Posts: 1188 Swinton, Manchester Gender: Drives: Nothing because I sold my MV6	Re: Help with something Reply #68 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:35 He hasn't been online today. Hope he has got everything sorted.
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nick v6 Omega Baron Offline Posts: 4776 walsall / west midlands Gender: Drives: chrysler grand voyager 3.3v6	Re: Help with something Reply #69 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:37 has anyone got his number that can give him a ring to make sure he is ok and not sat in the back of his mig
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Tommy Junior Member Offline Posts: 122 Truro, Cornwall Gender: Drives: 1999 Omega Elite	Re: Help with something Reply #70 - 05. Jun 2009 at 16:42 At a guess they didn't have a blazing row leaving him sitting downstairs alone as he would have come online. Hopefully it was nothing and taken out of proportion. Whatever, I'm sure that he'll be online when he's ready
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Albs Omega King Offline The upgrades are ongoing. Posts: 15083 North Essex Gender: Drives: 2000 2.5CD with LPG/Honda cbr600 FX	Re: Help with something Reply #71 - 05. Jun 2009 at 18:05 Martin Imber wrote on 05. Jun 2009 at 08:29: If he is pestering or having an affair - he is in the wrong. Dark Alley, Baseball bat and covered face time FFS.
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Re: Help with something
Reply #72 - 06. Jun 2009 at 13:33

Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. Thumbs Up!

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Re: Help with something
Reply #73 - 06. Jun 2009 at 13:36

Del Boy wrote on 06. Jun 2009 at 13:33:

Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. Thumbs Up!

glad all is ok mate
still think a little warning may be on the books Thumbs Up!

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Re: Help with something
Reply #74 - 06. Jun 2009 at 13:38

nick v6 wrote on 06. Jun 2009 at 13:36:

Del Boy wrote on 06. Jun 2009 at 13:33:

Well nothing is going on, my son fund out that he is a chippy, and wanted to talk to her about stuff at work etc.
I was on my way round to his house when I found this out from my son but he explained, still don't like the idea of all the sweet lips stuff and can't really understand why the still trying to make your mind up was on there but nothing seems to dodgy at the mo. Thumbs Up!

glad all is ok mate
still think a little warning may be on the books Thumbs Up!

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