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Two Choices - which would you make?
17. Dec 2009 at 22:00
 
Please read all before making your descision!

What would you do?....you make the choice.

Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one.

Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.
After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection..
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.
Where is the natural order of things in my son?'

The audience was stilled by the query.. . ..

The father continued. 'I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.'

Then he told the following story:


Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father/ I/ also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.'

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!

Run to first!'

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, 'Run to second, run to second!'

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay'

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third! Shay, run to third!'

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay, run home! Run home!'

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team

'That day', said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world'.

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY:

We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate.

The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.**


Think about the outcome of your actions, you could make a difference for someone.....
Winning is not always the best result.....

I don't know if this is genuine, but the subject certainly raises an interesting subject.....
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #1 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:07
 
Amen to all that Smiley
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #2 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:13
 
Made me cry..... Cry Cry Cry Happy christmas evryone.... Smiley
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #3 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:14
 
a true lesson in humanity Thumbs Up!
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #4 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:30
 
Thats the sort of story that you really, really, hope is true ... but modern cynicsm makes you suspect it is "manufactured" ...

says more about us than the lad either way... Sad
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #5 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:31
 
in the ole days britain was like that,you shook the hands of the winner even the supporters shook hands at football,i dont know how any one entered a building(after you no after you,no after you i insist no after you,no please after you ladies before gentlemen,no no you first)get mi drift.not enough good deeds these days not much(rare)community spirit,yer get the feeling if you fell in the street people would step over you Sad
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Reply #6 - 17. Dec 2009 at 22:55
 
Quote:
Made me cry..... Cry Cry Cry Happy christmas evryone.... Smiley


You are not alone there Bertie
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #7 - 17. Dec 2009 at 23:04
 
I have heard this story before if it is true then I am happy and content, if it is false then let this be a guide as to how to treat others less fortunate than ourselves.

Happy Christmas fellow OOfers  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #8 - 17. Dec 2009 at 23:10
 
Very moving. Whether true or manufactured there are probably situations like this we never hear about that are real. It's getting the message across that matters.
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #9 - 17. Dec 2009 at 23:13
 
I'm sat here reading this post with tears rolling down my cheeks true or not it's what humanity should be all about.
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #10 - 18. Dec 2009 at 17:21
 
What a story... Don't know how true it is but it's still very moving Cry Cry

I like to think that people can still be like this, I know I try to be, but in the great scheme of things......... I don't think humanity is the way it was Sad Sad
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Reply #11 - 18. Dec 2009 at 19:38
 
If its true theres hope for humanity, if on the other hand its fabricated it should inspire us to be come a more understanding and thoughtful people.Yes it brought a tear to my eye
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #12 - 18. Dec 2009 at 19:53
 
I would like to think that when push comes to shove that most kids are like the OP's post.
There's a lad (16 year old) around the corner from me that rides motorbikes around with no helmet, insurance etc.
His mum thinks he's a bad apple sometimes, but i can honestly say he's a GOOD KID. The other week when i took Ray next door (my eldery neighbour) to see his wife in hospital, Tom (the young man in question) saw Ray closing my drive gates & helped Ray close them. I've also seen other random acts that he's done.
Just my opinion.
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Re: Two Choices - which would you make?
Reply #13 - 18. Dec 2009 at 20:55
 
Pete. wrote on 18. Dec 2009 at 19:53:
I would like to think that when push comes to shove that most kids are like the OP's post.
There's a lad (16 year old) around the corner from me that rides motorbikes around with no helmet, insurance etc.
His mum thinks he's a bad apple sometimes, but i can honestly say he's a GOOD KID. The other week when i took Ray next door (my eldery neighbour) to see his wife in hospital, Tom (the young man in question) saw Ray closing my drive gates & helped Ray close them. I've also seen other random acts that he's done.
Just my opinion.



Guide him then.

Get him to look at 50ccs and insurance - it is affordable for them.

Sounds like he needs some guidance
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